My favorite blogs are usually family/ marriage blogs dealing with Christian themes. I'm not a mom, I'm not married, yet these bloggers' words draw me to read every time. The reason I love reading their posts dawned on me the other day. Their posts are
real. They are entertaining, witty, but underneath all the funny words everything they say brings truth to my day. They talk about things I'm dealing with right now. So today I wanted to be
real with you. I wanted to tell you about things I've been struggling with because maybe my words can help you. I saw this picture on
pinterest the other day and I loved it so much I saved it as my background. It originally came from the blog,
Two Things in Common. The blogger is going through a Bible study in the book,
Calm My Anxious Heart; a book about contentment. Lately I have been struggling to find contentment in my life, which is odd because that is one area in my life I always thought I did well. I've been finding myself complaining and not feeling good enough in certain areas of my life. Honestly, nothing dramatic has happened to even make this occur. It's just me. I've let stress and other people's opinions rule my day and it's really gotten to me. I've found myself just going through the day feeling
unhappy and not understanding why. I've realized that the root of my unhappiness has come from comparing myself to other people. When I do that I'm always going to seem inadequate. There is always going to be someone more successful, prettier, and better than me. Complaining and comparing yourself to others will always steal your joy. Every time. I loved this picture and I wanted to point out some of the highlights because it's just too good not to share.
1. Never allow yourself to complain about anything- not even the weather.
Complaining doesn't help any situation. All it does is make you feel worse!
2. Never picture yourself in any other circumstance or any other place.
She added, "Be where you're at". This is one of my dad's favorite quotes, and I've found myself failing in this area lately. Oftentimes, with all the technology around us, we get so caught up in what everyone else is doing. We look at facebook, twitter, instagram, words with friends, etc. In the end, we waste valuable time doing these mindless things instead of spending time talking and being with the people we are around.
3. Never compare your lot to another's.
Like I said before, when we compare ourselves to others someone will always be greater. In the end this steals our joy!
4. Never allow yourself to wish this or that had been otherwise.
The past is the past, there is no reason to dwell on things that you can't change. Focus on the life God wants you to live right now.
5. Never dwell on tomorrow, remember that tomorrow is God's, not ours.
This is the most comforting point because it makes me realize that there is no reason to stress about the future or things to come in my life. God is in control of it all.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you, not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11
I hope my words can bring truth to your day and that when you find yourself complaining or comparing your situation to others, you realize this will only steal your joy and happiness. Focus on today, and do not stress about things to come. There is always something to be happy about each day. As the title of my blog says, "Celebrate the Day".
"This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Pslam 118:24